Grandiose Narc Neighbour From Hell.

                                   The Narc’s Pets. Flying Monkeys.

I thought before I began, I would explain what a narcissist’s flying monkey is, as not everybody will know what heinous individuals these are, too.

Flying monkeys are the narcissist’s pets. They may think they are special in the eyes of their mistress or master, but at the end of the day, they are just pets, disposable pets at that, that can be tossed aside at any point if the master or mistress decides they have smited them in some way. Or maybe in a moment of clarity, they decided after detecting what a vile person they are, to do the bidding for and decided to stop being a slave to insanity, at which point, for whatever reason, the flying monkey will be firmly in the narcissist’s sights for some retribution. Remember, in the narcissist’s eye, only one person is special, and that is them.

The flying monkey can be anyone. Family member, partner, friends,(frenemies), anybody who is willing to take the narcissist’s side at any cost, even when the monkey knows they are wrong. Monkeys thrive on gossip, which is ideal for the narcissists; they will use it when they are conducting a smear campaign on somebody to spread lies and gossip about people. They will use them to try and get information on a target via any means. The target’s family members are always a good source of gossip or their friends. Obviously, the target at some point will know the narc is targeting them, so they will probably have discussed it with family and friends so they send in a monkey to fly under the radar.

Flying monkeys in my eyes are horrendous. They fly, causing trouble for people they do not even know, just to appease the narc. I have experienced my neighbours’ monkeys, as I will be explaining later on. Some say they do it because they are scared of not appeasing the narc in case they turn on them, sad to tell them they already have and are using them in the worst way possible to try and destroy somebody’s life that the monkey does not even know. And probably for a reason so insignificant that no right-thinking person would even consider taking offence over. Then there are the monkeys who just love gossiping and causing trouble, and love running back to their master or mistress to be patted on the head and told to roll over for the latest bit of grief they are helping to cause for somebody they do not even know.

Yes, the chittering, chattering monkeys can fast become a royal pain in the ass when the narc releases them on you. We will cover how to deal with them too, later. They will crash and burn sooner or later on their own when the narc has had enough of them,
and they will.

If you are being targeted by a narc, it is important to keep notes, dates and times of things happening, as it can get serious pretty quickly. Keep notes on the monkeys, as if it comes to a court case, they can be called as witnesses against the narc. Narc’s are dangerous, and the flying monkeys should think twice before doing their bidding, as no outcome is good.