Grandiose Narc Neighbour From Hell.

                            The Grandiose And Her Flying Monkey Husband.

When I first moved here, I spoke to the narc and her husband, Carol and Bob, and it did not take me long to get the measure of them, so I decided to keep speaking to them in passing and see what they were up to. When she wanted to talk about people, she would always start with, “What do you think of so and so?” If I had no opinion, she would take off in a huff. I knew she was talking about me to people as she was talking about everybody else. One day, I was calling the pig, and her frenemy came past and said don’t go to that horrible woman to the pig. The next time I saw Carol, I asked her about this as Carol was the only person I had spoken to, and she replied in a really creepy childlike voice, with her head too one side and looking down, “it wasn’t me” Yes, it was her, as I said I had only spoken to her. That reply took me aback. I had never seen such strange behaviour; it really creeped me out.

She writes down everybody’s car number plates. When the lad over the top who came under attack got a new girlfriend, she got her number plate and stuck her head through my window on her way past and announced the girl’s car had been wrapped and used to be blue. whoever does that. Then she asked if I had Facebook, which I don’t, as she wanted to look up this lady. As she went down the street, she shouted, “I need to know”

There are lots of instances where, at first, I thought she had just a big mouth and was rude until I realised it was something far more sinister. Accusing me of having alcohol in my water bottle when I was out walking. Sticking her head through my window when I was enjoying some chocolate and saying, “feeding your face again”, she was forever giving unwanted advice, thinking she or Bob knew better than everyone, but that’s just the nature of the beast. We had a survey go round from the council, and she went around advising people not to fill it in until Bob had looked it over, then he would suggest what answers to give, unbelievable.

Carol and Bob say Bob is a doctor, but unless he came from the same school as Harold Shipman or Crippen,
I find that very hard to believe, as the man has no empathy at all. When it came to a point I could not bear her anymore, she went around telling people Bob had been struck off for standing against Covid. He is not on any register for doctors present or past, or for doctors who have been struck off? So I really don’t know? During Covid, he used to knock on the window and give a big spiel about something, but it was the same spiel, more or less word-for-word that an online doctor had said. It was really quite bizarre.

They played a kind of good cop, bad cop routine. She would go around causing all the trouble, and he would stand back as such. Once she was exposed, he carried on as if nothing had happened, as if he knew nothing. I was upstairs one day, and my partner was outside, and they went past on their bikes, and Bob said hello to my partner and my partner said hello back, and you should have seen the smug look on her face. It was at this point that I had to sit my partner down and ask him if he thought it was possible that this woman, who was causing so much trouble in the community, was being enabled by her husband, who was playing the innocent. And what man would stand by while their partner single-handedly tried to destroy a community, and he agreed with me. He played a good part, but now he is exposed too, and he has really shown his colours.

He likes to pick on and harass women when he knows they are alone. He will walk, looking in my window when he knows my partner is at work, with a nasty, leering expression. He never does it when my partner is at home.  She did it too, but not so much now. If it wasn’t for the security cameras, I would have no proof of this, but it’s all caught on camera. He has also gone after two other women when their partners were not there, and has been reported for harassment. My thinking is Bob probably gets bullied by Carol at home, so he feels the need to go out and harass other women.

That’s a brief introduction to the narc and her flying monkey. It gets worse, much worse, and as I have said, it’s been nearly three years of me having to deal with this and longer for others. They will involve anyone who will listen to them. They send in false reports, which are total lies to the likes of the council, the police and more, as you will see. Bob is around 76 years of age, and Carol is about 70. They do play the age card, of course, when it suits, but it doesn’t work. He goes out and about on his mountain bike, snooping and she until she got fully exposed was off walking, snooping into people’s business. They only have themselves to blame for the fact that hardly anybody gives them the time of day anymore, although of course they will blame anyone but themselves.

People who live in Kent may have encountered these two before they moved here, as she is quite proud that she is still harassing somebody from where she used to live over 10 years ago.