The Dangers of Toxic Neighbors

Worried woman peers through a window as a man raises his fist outside

A Narc’s Sense Of Entitlement Is Off The Scale.

Of course, it came to a point where I decided I could not have this woman anywhere near me; the toxicity was off the scale. I had tried to be civil with her so I could warn people what she was up to; she had told me, bragging, she had a person at the council who was passing her information about people and it became quite obvious she had, as when I told her not to come near me no more herself and her enabling husband made several mistakes which they could of only known from an application I myself had made to the council. More about that in a later chapter.

She had gone after a young lad and his business when he had wanted to expand and build some holiday lets. She had said he had lied about his finances, like that should have anything to do with her, so she started her hate campaign. This woman thinks she is entitled to know the ins and outs of everybody’s lives, and what she does not know, she makes up. She had a frenemy (flying monkey) up near the young lad, and between them they used to run back and forth with notes, would blatantly look over his property and were horrendous. She put report after report, all false, into the council, trying to disrupt this lad’s life and business; the council were always visiting him. They said if they get a report, even if they know it is untrue, they have to investigate. She went from neighbour to neighbour trying to get them to join in on this campaign (triangulation). She told people he was money laundering and that he was burying asbestos on his land. It got really quite mad, as if anybody would do that when they are expanding their business?

He could not believe it was her doing it, as she would stand and chat to his face, it was quite amazing to watch. He could not understand why she was doing it after he had done nothing wrong to her. I think jealousy as well as not getting access to all the information she wanted,

played a big part in this instance. It was then I realised how dangerous to this community this person was.

After she had got my personal information and was starting her smear campaign on me, I decided enough was enough and put a complaint in to the council about people’s personal information being given to Carol. Of course, the council said they could not find anything, but from that moment on, the lad got no more visits from the council. I considered taking it to the ICO, but since it had stopped, I didn’t see a point. I would really like to know how many complaints this woman makes to different organisations in a year.

She got people who did not live here to complain about this lad, really quite horrendous, just because she perceived he had lied to her, because she could not find out how he had financed his holiday lets. I warned her he could sue her for slander, and her reply was “I do not care he lied to me” This lad had 3 years of this behaviour until she turned her hatred my way, and I am firmly in her sights. I really do not care; she is a nothing, just a horrendously vile person. She can stand looking through my window as much as she likes; I am surprised she does, as I put privacy film on it, so it acts like a mirror. I am surprised she can bear to stand and look at her own reflection for so long; the vile person it is that’s looking back at her. I wonder if she sees her fake self or her real tormented self?

I told the lad do not rest on your laurels and think you are off the hook; she has just shelved you for later. She will be back, they never go away.

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